MY APPROACH
Compassion Focused Therapy
Compassion-focused therapy (CFT) is a holistic approach that blends techniques from person-centered therapy with insights from evolutionary psychology, social psychology, developmental psychology, Buddhist psychology, and neuroscience.
CFT offers a perspective that many of our challenges aren't solely the result of personal choices but are deeply influenced by the environment and circumstances we're born into. By shifting away from self-blame and understanding the broader context, a profound sense of clarity and insight emerges.
This therapeutic approach is particularly beneficial for individuals grappling with deep-seated feelings of shame and self-criticism. Such feelings often arise when one hasn't had the opportunity to nurture positive emotions like safety, reassurance, and compassion, especially if they come from backgrounds marked by neglect, criticism, or abuse. Through CFT, the aim is to cultivate an environment where self-acceptance and compassion can flourish, paving the way for genuine healing and growth
Polyvagal Trauma Informed Therapy
Polyvagal Therapy explores the complexities of our nervous system to create a deep sense of safety and connection.
This approach is especially helpful for those struggling with emotional regulation. It’s based on the idea that our nervous system’s reactions are shaped by life experiences—both early and ongoing. By working with these patterns, we can uncover what’s contributing to emotional stress and find ways to calm the overwhelm.
For many, life’s challenges trigger a constant "fight or flight" mode, resulting in anxiety, tension, and a disconnection from both themselves and the people around them. Over time, unresolved emotions can lead to depression, leaving you feeling stuck, numb, and mentally foggy.
In our sessions, we’ll start by stabilizing your emotional landscape and understanding your nervous system’s patterns. From there, Polyvagal Therapy will help you rebuild a sense of connection with yourself, others, and the world, bringing you back to a place of balance and peace.
Meditative Therapy
Blending mindfulness practices with therapeutic techniques offers a holistic approach to healing.
Mindfulness and focused breathing exercises are initially used to calm and center the mind. Once a state of equilibrium is achieved, the innate wisdom of the mind and body guides the process toward clarity and tranquility. This method, often called 'heart-centered' therapy, emphasizes the importance of authentic self-expression before transitioning into serene introspection.
This approach resonates deeply with those seeking a spiritually inclined path to self-discovery, introspection, and the realization of inner purpose and contentment
Somatic Therapies & Embodiment Healing
Listening to the Body’s Language: From Stress and Burnout to Balance and Well-Being
Somatic therapies provide a sanctuary for those navigating stress, burnout, and emotional upheaval. These therapies honor the body not just as a vessel but as a repository of memories, emotions, and healing potential. By attuning to the body’s innate wisdom, we can unravel experiences that shape our present, recognizing that trauma and stress don’t just reside in the mind—they live within us physically.
In the fast pace of life, we may find ourselves in “fight, flight, or freeze” cycles, leading to burnout and disconnection from our core. Somatic therapies offer a path forward, helping us interpret these physical signals not as obstacles but as guides to deeper self-understanding and recovery. Through grounded presence and mindful awareness, we learn to reshape these responses, moving from chaos to harmony.
Our journey begins with creating a safe space where the nervous system can find balance. From there, we explore the body’s cues and signals. As somatic practices become part of our sessions, they facilitate a profound reconnection with the self, extending their influence beyond the therapy room to support a more present and authentic way of living.
HeartMath Breathwork
Using the Heart's Intelligence to Restore Harmony and Resilience
In times of stress and overwhelm, HeartMath techniques offer a grounding space where we can reconnect with the heart’s natural wisdom to find balance. These practices aren’t just coping strategies, they’re a way to bring the heart and mind into harmony, helping to ease stress, burnout, and emotional fatigue.
By tuning into the heart’s rhythm, we can shift how we respond to life’s challenges, creating a steadier, more resilient foundation. This approach doesn’t ignore the realities of life; instead, it nurtures a strong inner core that helps us move through difficulties with greater ease. Rediscover a sense of calm and resilience through heart-centered living.
Intention Tapping
Releasing Emotional Attachments: Finding Freedom from the Past
Intention Tapping is a powerful practice for letting go of emotional burdens and creating space for genuine change. It’s more than a technique; it’s a journey toward self-liberation that helps you bridge the gap between your true intentions and the emotions that influence your daily life. In times of stress, burnout, or the lingering effects of trauma, Intention Tapping offers a practical way to reconnect with your inner strength and purpose.
Through aligning intentions with targeted tapping practices, this approach encourages emotional transformation. Rather than suppressing difficult emotions, it’s about acknowledging and understanding them, then consciously shifting focus toward the experiences and feelings you truly want in your life. Intention Tapping provides a way to navigate challenges with clarity and resilience, helping turn emotional weights into steps forward on the path to balance and well-being.
Spiritual Growth and Mentoring
Embracing Inner Peace: Navigating Stress and Fatigue through Spiritual Growth .
In life’s journey, stress, burnout, and fatigue can cloud our true selves, making fulfillment seem out of reach. Spiritual growth and mentoring offer a path back to your innate wisdom and peace. This process isn’t about searching for external solutions; it’s about tapping into your inner strength and potential, which often go unnoticed amid life’s demands.
Through introspective work, you can rise above life’s turbulence, accessing a deeper sense of purpose and connection. It’s about releasing the grip of the ego—the inner critic shaped by past traumas and societal pressures—and awakening to the calm and resilience of your true self. This shift not only relieves stress and exhaustion but also opens the door to lasting peace and vitality, empowering you to create a life that reflects your highest intentions.
"Nichola's sessions are a blend of insight, empathy, and actionable techniques. Whether it's intentional tapping or mindfulness exercises, she always has a tool up her sleeve to help me navigate my emotions. I can't recommend her enough."
Julie A.
RAPID RECODE REWIRING
What Is Rapid Recode?
Unlock Infinite Potential with Superconscious Techniques: Transformative Healing Beyond Conscious Limits
Rapid Recode is a breakthrough approach to healing and self-discovery, using the vast wisdom of the Superconscious mind. This realm, beyond the constraints of the conscious and subconscious, holds the potential to rewrite our life’s narrative—addressing stress, burnout, fatigue, and trauma at their core.
This method is more than just a technique; it’s a pathway to a heightened state of well-being. By connecting with the Superconscious, Rapid Recode allows us to identify and transform deeply ingrained beliefs and patterns that shape our reality. Unlike traditional therapy, this process fast-tracks lasting change, empowering you to create a life aligned with your true desires.
In each session, we collaborate to identify areas where you feel stuck, tapping into the Superconscious to unlock insights and initiate a 'recode' of limiting beliefs and emotional blocks. This transformative journey opens the door to reduced stress, renewed wellness, and a profound connection to your truest self.
How I Work
My Approach to Transformation: A Four-Stage Journey
Discovery & Insight:Even if the problem isn't clear to you, our initial journey begins with a comprehensive exploration. We'll delve deep into your history, unravel the resources at your disposal, and identify the paths that can catalyze your healing and growth.
Strategizing for Change:Sometimes, recognizing the problem is easier than knowing the solution. It's not uncommon to find oneself trapped in this awareness stage, understanding one's issues but feeling powerless to move past them. This is where my approach diverges from the conventional. Instead of lingering, we focus on crafting SMART, achievable goals, propelling you towards tangible progress in a condensed timeframe.
Tailored Treatment Planning:With a clear target in sight, we'll collaboratively design a treatment plan that resonates with your unique needs. My methodology is grounded in evidence-based practices, ensuring our strategy is not only effective but also synergistic with broader healthcare paradigms.
Integration & Actualization:The final ascent involves reaching your specified goals and weaving these new, desired behaviors seamlessly into the fabric of your everyday life. This stage is about solidifying change, celebrating your evolution, and reinforcing your newfound sense of self.
You can find out more about how I work, here – and explore the different issues
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"My first chat with Nichola was amazing. I ended up crying happy tears because it felt like something inside me was finally free. I felt so much love and thankfulness. Her voice is really kind, and I feel like I can totally trust her.
We've been talking online, using cool methods that help me understand my thoughts and feelings better. Big things are changing for me. I'm kinder to myself, more accepting, and I've even made some exciting changes in what I do for work! It's awesome to discover new stuff about myself. I know now how much I'm worth, and these talks with Nichola are worth every penny!”
Kelly M.
HOLISTIC COACHING
How It Can Help
Feeling trapped in a cycle of stress, burnout, fatigue, or trauma? Unsure how to break free and reclaim your vitality and joy? My approach is tailored to guide you through this journey, leveraging my extensive qualifications in neuroscience, positive psychology, and various behavior modification therapies.
It all begins with you: your story, your struggles, and your strengths.
We delve into your experiences, not just to unearth the issues but to identify the resources you possess, often without realizing it. This process isn't about focusing on the problems; it's about harnessing your inherent potential and directing it towards tangible, meaningful change.
Our journey doesn't rely on a one-size-fits-all solution. Instead, it's an integrative, evidence-based strategy drawing from a spectrum of therapeutic techniques. The goal is to find the combination that resonates with your unique circumstances, creating a path forward that feels authentic and achievable.
The transformation you seek isn't just about reaching a destination. It's about integrating these changes into the very fabric of your life, ensuring they're sustainable and enriching. Through this collaborative process, you'll find not just relief but a profound, enduring shift towards empowerment and well-being. Are you ready to take the first step?
"I've been working with Nichola for a while now and it's made all the difference in my life. I have suffered a lot of trauma in my past and I find it hard to manage my stress levels, to have mental clarity or focus in my day to day life. Following my sessions with Nichola I am able to implement the changes I have learned to make my own health better. and I am truly grateful for all the support I have received from Nichola"
Lorraine M.
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